Thursday, August 17, 2017
Monday, August 14, 2017
Gul-e-Fanoosh and the Pitfalls of Photography
Here is an old favourite. We had a number of these shrubs in my childhood home, and they all had pink flowers. I would stand under the branches after the rain and get a little 'shower' shaking water off the petals, long after I'd crossed the age when it was alright to play with water.
The sight of these flowers always reminds me of the end of summer holidays. Schools reopened in the second week of July, some days after the monsoon set in over Delhi. Delhi was really beautiful those days, neither dirty nor crowded, but a city of gardens.
This is the tallest Gul-e-Fanoosh I have ever seen.
Botanical names are rarely pretty and lagerstroemia indica is no exception. I found some common Indian names at The Flowers of India website. Gul-e-Fanoosh isn't mentioned there. It's a name I learnt from this lovely old book pictured below, which my brother Raja found in a book godown in Siliguri.
A 'pitfall' can be quite painfully literal, as I learnt after slipping
and falling into this pit of 'jabra mal' or dry leaves and cut grass.
Thursday, August 03, 2017
Marvel of Peru
I have always had a running battle with my malis about the merits of local flowers.
Our mali in Moraghat, Mithoo, was a terrible snob who always pooh-poohed all the 'local' flowers that I loved to propagate. Cannas and hibiscus were 'common' in the gardens of labour houses and they were not fit to be grown in Burra Bungalow, he would say. We did battle for a good fifteen years, and like all people who disagree, we have a strong bond and a healthy respect for each other.
Mithoo in 2008
When we moved from Moraghat he made it a point to visit us every year just before the cold weather planting began. He'd bring seeds and seedlings of hollyhocks and cineraria, dianthus and asters. After his visit, I would hear how he'd been saying that I'd had taught him everything he knew about flowers. That was good of him, and it was not entirely true.
Mithoo regrets that we have moved to Assam and that too to Dibrugarh district, which is 'so far away' from the Dooars. When he last called, he said it would take him a day and a half to reach us and another day and a half to return. How would he ever get enough chhutti to 'pugaao' (reach) all the plants to me? He's promised to try and get away, though.
Thank goodness none of my friends was as stuck up as any of these gardeners who scoffed at any plant that didn't have an English name or lineage.
While we were in Moraghat, we'd see a lot of pretty yellow and magenta flowers which opened only in the evening. My mother knew the Tamil name, it was the 'Naalu Mani Poo' or 'Four o'clock flower'. I remember seeing some outside the homeopath's clinic in Mal Bazar. When I asked Dr. Sarkar, he was most happy to let me take some rooted cuttings.
Last year, when we came to Assam, we met many people, some for the first time, and some after a gap of over two decades. Mrs Bagai - Ashima, she hates formality - was someone I met after over 25 years, and it was as if those years in between had never been. It was wonderful to 'talk plants' together, among other things. It was thanks to Ashima that I got to know that one of the fruit trees in our compound was actually a fig tree!!
One evening last cold weather, I spent a few happy hours with Ashima in her garden. I came home with lots of cuttings and seeds, and among them there were two packets which her malis had packed and marked 'Red' and 'Yelo'. I was touched that they had taken the trouble to write in English. These were 'Naalu Mani Poo' seeds. I wanted to learn what the English name was, and Google came up with 'Four o'clock flower' when I entered 'Naalu Mani Poo'! I was delighted. This was so wonderfully accurate!! And what's more, the Tamil name had been 'recognised' without a hitch.
The seeds sprouted and the seedling plants grew quickly. I'd never seen so many colours among these flowers. I was in for another surprise; a single plant bore blooms of different colours!
Some flowers were speckled and some...well, pied ( I have never forgotten Jacob and Laban and the sheep from The Merchant of Venice). I love the way the flowers mirror the colours of what we call 'kite paper'! Nothing like Indian flowers, my jingositic inner voice kept repeating to itself.
That voice fell silent today. I googled 'Four o'clock Flower' and got 'Mirabilis Jalapa' or 'Marvel of Peru'. Peru! How remote, how exotic, and how - well, marvellous.
Our mali in Moraghat, Mithoo, was a terrible snob who always pooh-poohed all the 'local' flowers that I loved to propagate. Cannas and hibiscus were 'common' in the gardens of labour houses and they were not fit to be grown in Burra Bungalow, he would say. We did battle for a good fifteen years, and like all people who disagree, we have a strong bond and a healthy respect for each other.
Mithoo in 2008
When we moved from Moraghat he made it a point to visit us every year just before the cold weather planting began. He'd bring seeds and seedlings of hollyhocks and cineraria, dianthus and asters. After his visit, I would hear how he'd been saying that I'd had taught him everything he knew about flowers. That was good of him, and it was not entirely true.
Mithoo regrets that we have moved to Assam and that too to Dibrugarh district, which is 'so far away' from the Dooars. When he last called, he said it would take him a day and a half to reach us and another day and a half to return. How would he ever get enough chhutti to 'pugaao' (reach) all the plants to me? He's promised to try and get away, though.
Thank goodness none of my friends was as stuck up as any of these gardeners who scoffed at any plant that didn't have an English name or lineage.
While we were in Moraghat, we'd see a lot of pretty yellow and magenta flowers which opened only in the evening. My mother knew the Tamil name, it was the 'Naalu Mani Poo' or 'Four o'clock flower'. I remember seeing some outside the homeopath's clinic in Mal Bazar. When I asked Dr. Sarkar, he was most happy to let me take some rooted cuttings.
Last year, when we came to Assam, we met many people, some for the first time, and some after a gap of over two decades. Mrs Bagai - Ashima, she hates formality - was someone I met after over 25 years, and it was as if those years in between had never been. It was wonderful to 'talk plants' together, among other things. It was thanks to Ashima that I got to know that one of the fruit trees in our compound was actually a fig tree!!
One evening last cold weather, I spent a few happy hours with Ashima in her garden. I came home with lots of cuttings and seeds, and among them there were two packets which her malis had packed and marked 'Red' and 'Yelo'. I was touched that they had taken the trouble to write in English. These were 'Naalu Mani Poo' seeds. I wanted to learn what the English name was, and Google came up with 'Four o'clock flower' when I entered 'Naalu Mani Poo'! I was delighted. This was so wonderfully accurate!! And what's more, the Tamil name had been 'recognised' without a hitch.
The seeds sprouted and the seedling plants grew quickly. I'd never seen so many colours among these flowers. I was in for another surprise; a single plant bore blooms of different colours!
Some flowers were speckled and some...well, pied ( I have never forgotten Jacob and Laban and the sheep from The Merchant of Venice). I love the way the flowers mirror the colours of what we call 'kite paper'! Nothing like Indian flowers, my jingositic inner voice kept repeating to itself.
That voice fell silent today. I googled 'Four o'clock Flower' and got 'Mirabilis Jalapa' or 'Marvel of Peru'. Peru! How remote, how exotic, and how - well, marvellous.
Friday, June 30, 2017
Plum Crazy!!
Plum Crazy! That's what the husband called me when I lopped several branches off a couple of plum trees that were blocking the sunlight from a bed of cold weather blooms last January.
These trees were growing plumb (forgive me, I can't resist) in the middle of a bed of gerberas and nasturtiums, a vivid visual cocktail that was still in the getting-ready-to-hit-you stage. No flower lover could blame me, surely, for wanting to give them their due?? And after all, there were three other plum trees growing in a line nearby with branches reaching up high enough to threaten to bring down all our electric wiring.
As for the fruit, well, here's when things begin to get sour. The plum trees are quite lovely to see. Hands up all those who remember 'Lemon Tree' playing on the radio when you were young. You get it?
When we'd just moved to Assam and to this garden, I'd spent many happy hours photographing the trees with new foliage, then later on with blooms and finally, laden with jewels of fruit.
The blossoms, above, against the blue cold weather sky
Harvest! Plum heart with peach border
There were enough fruit to set me off on a frenzy of jelly making. We couldn't eat them just as they were. Our local expert made us a bottle of pickle with a new and unusual flavour, and a bottle of syrup as well. The jelly was much more tart than we'd expected it to be in spite of the amounts of sugar and the number of sweet Assam lemons we'd used up in it.
Whenever I'd made plum jelly in Moraghat in the Dooars, the fruit flavour would begin to 'awaken' after about a month or so and it kept getting better and better over time. So I took some bottles to family in Delhi - only to find they'd left them in their fridges, months later, almost untouched. The jelly just seemed to be getting more and more sour over time, they said.
My husband didn't exactly say I was unleashing my anger on the trees when I axed them, but the words seemed to hang in the air alright.
I reminded him of our Moraghat plum tree and how, after one of the April storms that we call 'Kaal Baisakhi' had attacked it we got fruits that were large and juicy. He went away mumbling about forces of nature and madness being two different things.
July is almost here, and the fruit's coming in now. The trees that were left untouched yield plenty of plums everyday- small, hard and sour, but I'm not buying sacks of sugar again! The trees that I, shall I say, treated, have fewer fruit: naturally, because they have fewer branches. But quantity is just not the same as quality.
See the picture!! Guess which ones came off which trees!
Joy in the Morning!
These trees were growing plumb (forgive me, I can't resist) in the middle of a bed of gerberas and nasturtiums, a vivid visual cocktail that was still in the getting-ready-to-hit-you stage. No flower lover could blame me, surely, for wanting to give them their due?? And after all, there were three other plum trees growing in a line nearby with branches reaching up high enough to threaten to bring down all our electric wiring.
As for the fruit, well, here's when things begin to get sour. The plum trees are quite lovely to see. Hands up all those who remember 'Lemon Tree' playing on the radio when you were young. You get it?
When we'd just moved to Assam and to this garden, I'd spent many happy hours photographing the trees with new foliage, then later on with blooms and finally, laden with jewels of fruit.
The blossoms, above, against the blue cold weather sky
Harvest! Plum heart with peach border
Whenever I'd made plum jelly in Moraghat in the Dooars, the fruit flavour would begin to 'awaken' after about a month or so and it kept getting better and better over time. So I took some bottles to family in Delhi - only to find they'd left them in their fridges, months later, almost untouched. The jelly just seemed to be getting more and more sour over time, they said.
My husband didn't exactly say I was unleashing my anger on the trees when I axed them, but the words seemed to hang in the air alright.
I reminded him of our Moraghat plum tree and how, after one of the April storms that we call 'Kaal Baisakhi' had attacked it we got fruits that were large and juicy. He went away mumbling about forces of nature and madness being two different things.
July is almost here, and the fruit's coming in now. The trees that were left untouched yield plenty of plums everyday- small, hard and sour, but I'm not buying sacks of sugar again! The trees that I, shall I say, treated, have fewer fruit: naturally, because they have fewer branches. But quantity is just not the same as quality.
See the picture!! Guess which ones came off which trees!
Joy in the Morning!
Wednesday, May 10, 2017
In the Maize

It's one of those post rain mornings. The wind lashed about last night after a hot and humid day, and the corn in our mali bari suffered its effects.
The corn wasn't flourishing anyway, not with all the birds pecking away at it happily.
Just last week, we put in some scarecrows.
These men of straw were laid low by the rain and wind, and they looked quite wretched in the morning. I kept thinking of Ruth amid the alien corn. Some had lost their shirts as well - no doubt they took them off, as Nirmal the bearer said, because yesterday was so hot!!
Saturday, April 29, 2017
The Good Old Days Weren't Always Good
This story is short - and sweet (you'll see why).
After griping about how it was impossible to get good 'gur'/jaggery/'vellam' in my last blog post, I decided to take my chances and shop online. Life can be full of sweet surprises. My favourite golden sugar was available at Amazon!
At Rs.69/- only for 500 grams, a packet of organic gur seemed like a steal.
I placed my order and got a message telling me it would be delivered by the first week of May, but the goodies came in today with the newspapers: a whole week early!
The packing was great, and the gur, chunky cubes of it, as golden and sweet as the cold weather sunshine!
We still have a 'dakwallah' in tea gardens - but now he brings in my online shopping as well!
Cheers to progress!
Saturday, April 22, 2017
Written on World Haiku Day, April 17, 2017
The waiting's ended.
In the Japanese,
No sound's stressed; all unweighted.
Monday, March 27, 2017
Haiku : Death in the Hollyhock
March of death : heat and insects.
Tuesday, January 03, 2017
Sweet Golden Memories
(published in the Hindu, 3/01/2017)
Karthigai has always been one of my favourite festival
days. It is celebrated on a full moon night, and this year it was on Tuesday,
13th December. Sisters light lamps and candles and pray for their
brothers, who express their love and thanks with gifts. When my daughters were little, they too lit
lamps and candles with me in our tea garden home in North Bengal just as I'd
done with my mother and sisters when I was growing up in Delhi.
Most of the goodies offered up with prayers on Karthigai are
made with jaggery, which is called Vellam (VELL-um) in Tamil and ‘gur’ (rhymes
with ‘good’) in a number of other Indian languages. On Karthigai my mother would
make Vella Dosai, Appam (little deep fried dumplings) and pori undai (puffed
rice laddoos in golden vellam syrup) in large numbers.
I remember that Vellam was always sold in rounds about
ten inches in diameter with slightly raised centres – around three inches high.
Vellam has a grainy texture, and it is firm, but soft enough to break into
chunks. We ate small chunks of it with dosai and adai at home, at 'tiffin
time', that traditional South Indian meal eaten somewhere between three and
five in the evening. Most children who grew up at the same time as I did
thought tiffin was the best meal of the day. You got traditional fast food (though we didn't have that phrase those
days) like dosai and adai, uppuma, pakoras (called Bajji) poori-masala and idli
(not a favourite with most children). These were actually good for you, in
addition to being delicious. There are brown and white versions of many
traditional Indian eats and the brown ones are all made with Vellam. There’s
white Pongal which is a savoury and Sakkara Pongal, its sweetened brown
version. Vellam gives us health benefits in the hot season as well. I remember my mother preparing glasses of icy ‘paanaham’ – a gur sharbat flavoured with dried ginger and
cardamom- which kept us cool during the days when Delhi’s ‘loo’ wind was at its
height. The taste beat Roohafza or Nimbu pani or any other pani.
Vellam is probably the purest form of cane sugar. It is
unrefined and rich in moisture, iron, minerals and 'heat'. It is high in
calories, but these are ‘good calories’ unlike the ones in refined white sugar.
Shakkar is another form of golden unrefined sugar, a little lighter in colour
and powdery in texture. Fresh stocks of Gur and Shakkar arrive at grocery shops
at the beginning of the cold weather. I found both in Delhi on my visit there
last month. Both were excellent. Only
small quantities of Gur and Shakkar make their way into the rural areas of
Eastern India.

A couple of months back, I bought some Gur here which was
awful. It was adulterated with caramelised white sugar. Hard to believe it, but
the cost of Gur has been higher than that of white sugar for some years now. It
used to be cheap and available everywhere: the poor man’s sweetener and a
traditional rustic dessert. In the nineties, my husband and I would take the
train to Madras, and when we passed through the poorer parts of rural Orissa
vendors would sell us tea sweetened with Gur.
I remember days of sugar
shortage and rationing. That was also the age when readymade garments were
costly and you got your clothes made by the tailor, when all our vegetables and
fruits were not evenly sized and brightly coloured hybrids, but actually tasted
of the earth from which they came.
The Bengali month of Poush began a few days ago, and with
it, the open season for bingeing on sweets, particularly those made with Khejur
Gur.
Khejur Gur is Gur made from
date palm sap. The sap is sweet and ready for collection at the beginning of
the cold weather, and it gets sweeter as the weather gets colder. I saw and
tasted my first Khejur Gur sweets when I got married and moved to the Dooars,
North Bengal. They weren’t all that well
known outside Bengal in those days. Once I tasted them, I was hooked for life.
Bengali Khejur Gur sweets are golden and boozy in flavour, with a mellow
richness that can’t be matched. We used to travel the length of Dooars at least
once a week, and my husband managed to hunt out the best eateries and
sweetshops in all the little towns. Pretty soon, we zeroed in on Nagrakata, Mal
Bazar and Bagdogra (in that order) as the places which stocked the best ‘Khejur
Gur er Mishti’.Around five years ago, there was a sudden drop in the quality of
these sweets. The sweetshops stocked them in large numbers, but alas, they no
longer tasted the same. It didn’t take long to discover the truth. There was no
Khejur Gur to be had anywhere, and the sweetshops had switched to caramel. This happened because there were no Khejur
(date) palm trees growing anywhere any more.
Some photographs from The Telegraph, taken in Nadia district, show how date palm sap is collected and how the 'gur' is made and sold at the market.
Sunday, December 25, 2016
Saturday, August 20, 2016
Thursday, April 14, 2016
Celebration Lilies
Easter lilies are so special. They almost always bloom on April 14, which we celebrate as 'Vishu' or New Year's Day. There would be a vase full of them in my mother's 'Vishu Kani'.
My mother remembers that when I was very young, I'd pluck all the buds which were just about to open. She and my father would be waiting to see the flowers and all they got was headless stalks.
I must have been a monster of an infant. Thank God for parents who brought me up anyway - and passed on their love of flowers to all of us.
What joy to go around a new garden, checking what plants there are! And what joy to see Easter lily leaves, to know that there will be flowers in March or April. Those few days when they bloom are enough to keep you going through the year.
Our garden at Moraghat Tea Estate had both red and white lilies. The reds bloomed first and then the whites. Once the flowering was over, we planted the bulbs out in rows - something we carried on doing for the fifteen years we lived there.
The nuns from St.James School and Holy Cross School at Binnaguri would drop in to collect lilies from us to decorate the church on Easter Sunday. We shared our bulbs with them too and in time to come, they had enough lilies in their own gardens. I did miss their annual visits!
Moraghat Bungalow

Bhatkawa Bungalow
Our next bungalow was at Bhatkawa Tea Estate, and my garden there didn't have a single Easter lily! I moaned about it for all the three years that we were there. You don't find Easter lilies in nurseries, you get them from friends. My friend in the neighbouring garden didn't have any in her bungalow either, and between us we knew no one in the district on whom we could descend to beg for bulbs.
There are several Easter lilies in the garden where we now live and I'm grateful to the people who must have planted these. They bring back so many memories.
A good way to start another New Year, giving thanks for life, for family, for friends old and new.
My mother remembers that when I was very young, I'd pluck all the buds which were just about to open. She and my father would be waiting to see the flowers and all they got was headless stalks.
I must have been a monster of an infant. Thank God for parents who brought me up anyway - and passed on their love of flowers to all of us.
What joy to go around a new garden, checking what plants there are! And what joy to see Easter lily leaves, to know that there will be flowers in March or April. Those few days when they bloom are enough to keep you going through the year.
The nuns from St.James School and Holy Cross School at Binnaguri would drop in to collect lilies from us to decorate the church on Easter Sunday. We shared our bulbs with them too and in time to come, they had enough lilies in their own gardens. I did miss their annual visits!
Moraghat Bungalow
Bhatkawa Bungalow
Our next bungalow was at Bhatkawa Tea Estate, and my garden there didn't have a single Easter lily! I moaned about it for all the three years that we were there. You don't find Easter lilies in nurseries, you get them from friends. My friend in the neighbouring garden didn't have any in her bungalow either, and between us we knew no one in the district on whom we could descend to beg for bulbs.
There are several Easter lilies in the garden where we now live and I'm grateful to the people who must have planted these. They bring back so many memories.
A good way to start another New Year, giving thanks for life, for family, for friends old and new.
Wednesday, April 13, 2016
Reflections of An Evening, written 2007
In Delhi, in the seventies, we used to look out for sunsets in the monsoon and post-monsoon months of August and September without fail. In a big and dry city like Delhi, rain was incredibly energetic. It was always a bonus; it brought high spirits, and it spelt romance. Spells of rain never lasted too long, and when they ended by evening, we got the additional treat of a sunset to enjoy and remember.
Evening curfew for a young girl like me in those days was lighting-up time. As soon as the street lights came on, I had to be home. What lovely late evening twilights we had. The light would fade slowly and grandly out of the sky, lingering until the clouds and trees were dark silhouettes. In my imagination, those banked up clouds on the horizon, black and purple masses, were mountains. The return home at the street light hour was followed by prayers in the back verandah. The puja was in the store room that opened off it. The back verandah would be lit only by the fading daylight and the storeroom was beautiful in the dark. It was comforting and yet exciting, and there were many smells that filled it: the sharp smell of the scrubbed brass villakku or the smoky smell of burnt oil wicks, the scent of goodies stored in big biscuit tins, and agarbatti, which dominated, and then took over my senses with its calming effect so that my troubles -- homework undone or a test the next day-- would be washed away. Only the comfort and the safety of my parents' home would remain.
It was remarkable that one could connect to nature in such a profound way in the heart of Delhi.
That was a long time ago, and the habit of enjoying a few quiet moments gathering one's thoughts at the end of the day remains. On some evenings, the day seems to die, and it has a melancholy feel. On other days, there is only a feeling of peace. Today, I was sitting outside our house and looking at the Bhutan Himalayas, purple and black masses against the Northern sky, and I dreamed they were the clouds of my Delhi childhood. One peak stood out sharply defined, perfectly symmetrical, and in the foreground, a gulmohar leaf swayed in the silent breeze. It could have been a calendar picture of Mt.Fuji with a leaf etching in front.
It rained all afternoon after an incredibly hot and sticky morning. The thunder was deafening and it was a really dramatic, high intensity storm. It cleared the air magically. By four o'clock, the sky was washed blue and the hills stood out in clear relief. I walked down to the National Highway -- a straight road leads to it from my house - at about five o'clock, with my head turned right to see the hills. They were silhouettes; I couldn’t see the trees on them at all, but I could see the ranges layered out distinctly. Where the sky met the hills, it was a lighter blue than anywhere else; almost whitish, and luminous. The silence that settled around this spectacle made me imagine it was a pre-dawn scene, as if something big was about to happen soon.
Back from my walk, I sat outside on a swing, with our patient and undemanding dog Simba at my feet. There was a gentle breeze blowing. Birds had returned to their nests and fallen silent. A truck rumbled past on the highway, but it wasn’t an unwelcome sound.
The sound of children playing somewhere in the distance was missing today. It is a typical evening sound. Once I was among children who played in the evenings out in the open, watching anxiously for the lights on the lampposts. Then, as a young adult, I remember sitting and daydreaming on the front steps in the evening and listening to a sad song about a lonely man watching the children play. I sit alone now and the children who played in this garden when they were little have left home. Home and childhood may seem very far away to them too. The complete tranquility and simplicity of those childhood years is lost for ever, but at moments such as these, one can recapture traces of it.
Published here in my blog in 2007
Wednesday, March 09, 2016
Fresh Skin!
After two cold, windy and rainy days, the sun showed up at around noon today. We always tread carefully on the lawn because there are creatures that bite and sting, but I didn't notice what was there until the mali pointed it out to me.
I was not the only one who'd come out to enjoy the sun!

We thought that the frilly bit was where the head must have been, but when the malis turned the skin over and unfurled it, this is what we saw:
The snake must have been over five feet long. Look at the head :
All the revulsion I'd felt at the sight of the skin was gone.
I was not the only one who'd come out to enjoy the sun!
We thought that the frilly bit was where the head must have been, but when the malis turned the skin over and unfurled it, this is what we saw:
The snake must have been over five feet long. Look at the head :
All the revulsion I'd felt at the sight of the skin was gone.
Monday, February 22, 2016
Thursday, April 30, 2015
Smelling of April and May
When the drought is over and we've had some rain we get to feast our eyes on these signs of moisture. It's a surfeit of flowers and new leaves everywhere. No need to plan out beds or plant seeds like the cold weather, because what's already in the garden starts blooming. There are lilies, hibiscus,hydrangeas, magnolias and gardenias. The grass is green again.
Delicate blooms of bougainvillea.
Heady and intoxicating, the fragrance of the magnolia blooms - alas, I can't capture that!
Gardenia - what I choose to call myself on this blog.

There are many fellow creatures celebrating life out there. I captured the most eye-catching of the lot.


I salute the Maker!!
Thank you to the person who planted these hydrangeas. They're pink and lilac in one border and blue in another.
Almost like a forest floor under the mahogany trees.Delicate blooms of bougainvillea.
Gardenia - what I choose to call myself on this blog.

There are many fellow creatures celebrating life out there. I captured the most eye-catching of the lot.


I salute the Maker!!
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